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Depression & Low Mood
Explore articles on depression, low mood, emotional numbness, hopelessness, burnout, and mental wellbeing. This category looks at the emotional impact of stress, life experiences, relationships, grief, and everyday pressures, while offering thoughtful, evidence-informed guidance around depression, therapy, and emotional support.


Compulsive Porn Use, Shame and Recovery: What Ore Oduba’s Story Can Teach Us
Ore Oduba’s decision to speak openly about his long struggle with pornography highlights the shame, secrecy and emotional patterns that can sit behind compulsive porn use. This article explores when porn stops feeling like a choice and how counselling may help.

Paul Madden
3 hours ago7 min read


World Suicide Prevention Day: Please Stay
This World Suicide Prevention Day, Paul Madden reflects on Ben West’s story and the importance of staying, speaking and reaching for support. If life feels unbearable right now, you do not have to face it alone.

Paul Madden
4 days ago4 min read


World Suicide Prevention Day 2026: A Conversation Could Save a Life
This World Suicide Prevention Day, the message is simple: we need to talk about suicide. You do not have to be a therapist to ask someone how they really are, listen without judgement and help them take the next step towards support.

Paul Madden
Sep 34 min read


Imposter Syndrome in High Achievers: Why Feeling Like a Fraud Doesn’t Mean You Are One
Imposter syndrome can make capable people feel like frauds. Learn why self-doubt often signals growth — and how therapy can help you build confidence and resilience.

Paul Madden
Aug 245 min read


When Your Partner Is Diagnosed With Cancer: Coping With the Stress No One Talks About
When your partner is diagnosed with cancer, the emotional impact can affect you too. Fear, uncertainty, guilt, exhaustion and changes in intimacy or everyday roles can place significant pressure on a relationship. This article explores the often-overlooked experience of supporting someone you love through cancer and why partners and carers may need support of their own.

Paul Madden
Aug 1914 min read


From Heatwaves to Wildfires: Why Climate Change Can Leave Us Feeling Anxious and Powerless
Heatwaves, wildfires and extreme weather can make climate change feel much closer to home. For some, this can lead to climate anxiety or eco-anxiety, bringing feelings of fear, uncertainty, guilt and powerlessness. This blog explores why climate change can affect our mental health, how worry can become difficult to switch off, and how we can care about the future without allowing anxiety to overwhelm the present.

Paul Madden
Aug 1810 min read


Living Through the Year of Firsts After Loss: Grief, Anniversaries and Healing
The first year after losing someone can bring painful reminders, anniversaries and emotional milestones. This article explores grief, bereavement and gentle ways to navigate the “year of firsts” after loss.

Paul Madden
Aug 163 min read


The NASA Nap: Could 26 Minutes of Rest Help Your Wellbeing?
Could 26 minutes of rest make a difference to how you feel? The NASA nap offers a simple reminder that sometimes supporting our wellbeing isn’t about doing more. It’s about giving ourselves permission to stop, switch off and rest.

Paul Madden
Aug 144 min read


The Two Sides of Fame: Mental Health, Identity and Life in the Public Eye
Fame can bring success, opportunity and recognition, but life in the public eye can also bring pressure, scrutiny and a loss of privacy. I explore the two sides of fame, identity and mental health, and why having a confidential space where you can simply be yourself can matter.

Paul Madden
Aug 106 min read


Public Grieving for Famous People: What Glen Hansard's Farewell Teaches Us About Loss
Black-and-white portrait of Irish musician Glen Hansard, captured in a reflective moment, symbolising remembrance, public grief, and the enduring impact of his music and legacy.

Paul Madden
Aug 43 min read


Suicide Rates Among UK Men: Why Men’s Mental Health Can No Longer Be Ignored
Suicide among UK men remains a growing mental health crisis. This article explores male depression, emotional suppression, suicide prevention, warning signs and why early support can save lives.

Paul Madden
Jul 293 min read


Farmers’ Mental Health at Its Lowest in Four Years – Why Early Support Matters More Than Ever
Farmers mental health is under growing pressure from isolation, stress and financial uncertainty. Explore rural mental health, farming stress and why early support matters.

Paul Madden
Jul 254 min read


Male Loneliness: Why So Many Men Experience Loneliness in Silence
Male loneliness is more common than many people realise. While men may appear to be coping on the surface, feelings of disconnection often remain hidden. This article explores why so many men experience loneliness in silence, the impact on mental health, and how meaningful connection can help.

Paul Madden
Jun 214 min read


Men's Mental Health and Relationships: Why Connection Matters
Men's mental health and relationships are deeply connected. Discover how communication, emotional intimacy, isolation, and relationship challenges can affect wellbeing and learn how stronger connections can support better mental health.

Paul Madden
Jun 195 min read


Signs of Poor Mental Health in Men: What to Look Out For
Recognising the signs of poor mental health in men can make a real difference. Learn how irritability, anger, withdrawal, sleep problems, and increased alcohol use may indicate someone is struggling.

Paul Madden
Jun 175 min read


Loneliness vs Being Alone: What's the Difference?
Loneliness and being alone are often mistaken for the same thing, but they are very different experiences. In this article, we explore the difference between loneliness vs being alone, why you can feel lonely even when surrounded by others, and how understanding this distinction can support emotional wellbeing and meaningful connection.

Paul Madden
Jun 154 min read


Men's Health Week 2026: Why It's Time for Men to Prioritise Their Mental Health
Men's Health Week 2026 highlights the importance of men's mental health. Discover how counselling can help men manage stress, anxiety, and life's challenges.

Paul Madden
Jun 154 min read


Why Do I Feel Empty Even When Life Looks Fine?
Feeling emotionally empty does not always mean crisis. Sometimes it reflects burnout, emotional suppression, hidden depression, or losing connection with yourself over time.

Paul Madden
May 254 min read


Depression Doesn’t Always Feel Like Sadness
Depression does not always look like obvious sadness. For many people, it feels more like emotional numbness, exhaustion, irritability, or quietly struggling through daily life.

Paul Madden
May 184 min read


How Do I Know If I’m Depressed? Common Signs of Depression
Depression does not always look like obvious sadness. This article explores common signs of depression, emotional numbness, low mood, and when it may help to seek support.

Paul Madden
Apr 275 min read
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