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Learn more about counselling, psychotherapy, online therapy, emotional wellbeing, and what to expect from the therapeutic process. Helpful guidance for anyone considering therapy for the first time.


Compulsive Porn Use, Shame and Recovery: What Ore Oduba’s Story Can Teach Us
Ore Oduba’s decision to speak openly about his long struggle with pornography highlights the shame, secrecy and emotional patterns that can sit behind compulsive porn use. This article explores when porn stops feeling like a choice and how counselling may help.

Paul Madden
14 hours ago7 min read


World Suicide Prevention Day: Please Stay
This World Suicide Prevention Day, Paul Madden reflects on Ben West’s story and the importance of staying, speaking and reaching for support. If life feels unbearable right now, you do not have to face it alone.

Paul Madden
5 days ago4 min read


World Suicide Prevention Day 2026: A Conversation Could Save a Life
This World Suicide Prevention Day, the message is simple: we need to talk about suicide. You do not have to be a therapist to ask someone how they really are, listen without judgement and help them take the next step towards support.

Paul Madden
Sep 34 min read


Grief After a Breakup: Do You Miss Them — Or Who You Were With Them?
Sometimes after a relationship ends, what we miss most is not simply the other person. We may miss how we felt with them — desired, interesting, confident or alive. Inspired by a video from my friend and colleague Julie, I explore the grief of losing both a relationship and a version of yourself.

Paul Madden
Sep 17 min read


Dolly Parton, Celebrity Grief and Why We Mourn People We Never Knew
The death of a famous person can affect us far more deeply than we expect. Following the death of Dolly Parton, I explore why people can genuinely grieve someone they never met, how public loss can reconnect us with our own memories and why those feelings should not be dismissed.

Paul Madden
Aug 269 min read


Imposter Syndrome in High Achievers: Why Feeling Like a Fraud Doesn’t Mean You Are One
Imposter syndrome can make capable people feel like frauds. Learn why self-doubt often signals growth — and how therapy can help you build confidence and resilience.

Paul Madden
Aug 245 min read


When Your Partner Is Diagnosed With Cancer: Coping With the Stress No One Talks About
When your partner is diagnosed with cancer, the emotional impact can affect you too. Fear, uncertainty, guilt, exhaustion and changes in intimacy or everyday roles can place significant pressure on a relationship. This article explores the often-overlooked experience of supporting someone you love through cancer and why partners and carers may need support of their own.

Paul Madden
Aug 1914 min read


From Heatwaves to Wildfires: Why Climate Change Can Leave Us Feeling Anxious and Powerless
Heatwaves, wildfires and extreme weather can make climate change feel much closer to home. For some, this can lead to climate anxiety or eco-anxiety, bringing feelings of fear, uncertainty, guilt and powerlessness. This blog explores why climate change can affect our mental health, how worry can become difficult to switch off, and how we can care about the future without allowing anxiety to overwhelm the present.

Paul Madden
Aug 1810 min read


The Two Sides of Fame: Mental Health, Identity and Life in the Public Eye
Fame can bring success, opportunity and recognition, but life in the public eye can also bring pressure, scrutiny and a loss of privacy. I explore the two sides of fame, identity and mental health, and why having a confidential space where you can simply be yourself can matter.

Paul Madden
Aug 106 min read


Public Grieving for Famous People: What Glen Hansard's Farewell Teaches Us About Loss
Black-and-white portrait of Irish musician Glen Hansard, captured in a reflective moment, symbolising remembrance, public grief, and the enduring impact of his music and legacy.

Paul Madden
Aug 43 min read


Bad Relationship Advice That Can Damage Your Mental Health
From “love conquers all” to “never go to bed angry,” some relationship advice can do more harm than good. This article explores unhealthy relationship myths, boundaries and emotional wellbeing in healthy relationships.

Paul Madden
Jul 312 min read


Suicide Rates Among UK Men: Why Men’s Mental Health Can No Longer Be Ignored
Suicide among UK men remains a growing mental health crisis. This article explores male depression, emotional suppression, suicide prevention, warning signs and why early support can save lives.

Paul Madden
Jul 293 min read


Farmers’ Mental Health at Its Lowest in Four Years – Why Early Support Matters More Than Ever
Farmers mental health is under growing pressure from isolation, stress and financial uncertainty. Explore rural mental health, farming stress and why early support matters.

Paul Madden
Jul 254 min read


Lando Norris Mental Health: Why Champions Admitting Self-Doubt Matters
Lando Norris opening up about self-doubt challenges outdated ideas about masculinity, confidence and success. This article explores mental health in elite sport, performance pressure and why vulnerability matters for men.

Paul Madden
Jul 22 min read


Understanding Herpes: A Normalised View of a Common Virus
A herpes diagnosis can feel emotionally overwhelming, but herpes is common and manageable. This article explores herpes stigma, relationships, emotional wellbeing and living with HSV without shame.

Paul Madden
Jun 283 min read


Male Loneliness: Why So Many Men Experience Loneliness in Silence
Male loneliness is more common than many people realise. While men may appear to be coping on the surface, feelings of disconnection often remain hidden. This article explores why so many men experience loneliness in silence, the impact on mental health, and how meaningful connection can help.

Paul Madden
Jun 214 min read


Men's Mental Wellbeing: Taking the First Step Towards Better Mental Health
Men's mental wellbeing is essential for living a healthy and balanced life. Discover practical self-care strategies, support options, and when to seek professional help to improve your mental health and wellbeing.

Paul Madden
Jun 215 min read


How Counselling Helps Men Build Strength and Resilience
Counselling for men is not a sign of weakness. Discover how therapy can help build resilience, improve wellbeing, strengthen relationships, and provide support through life's challenges.

Paul Madden
Jun 205 min read


Men's Mental Health and Relationships: Why Connection Matters
Men's mental health and relationships are deeply connected. Discover how communication, emotional intimacy, isolation, and relationship challenges can affect wellbeing and learn how stronger connections can support better mental health.

Paul Madden
Jun 195 min read


Stress and Burnout in Men: When Coping Stops Working
Stress and burnout in men can develop gradually through work pressure, financial worries, family responsibilities, and mental exhaustion. Learn the warning signs and discover how counselling can help.

Paul Madden
Jun 184 min read
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